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	<title>Comments on: It&#8217;s Who You&#160;Know</title>
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	<description>Everyone needs a hug.</description>
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		<title>By: Ben</title>
		<link>http://particletree.com/notebook/its-who-you-know/#comment-1087</link>
		<dc:creator>Ben</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2005 01:23:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;On the subject of networking, check out the book, "Never Eat Alone."
It's a fun, fast read.&lt;/p&gt;
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On the subject of networking, check out the book, &#8220;Never Eat Alone.&#8221;
It&#8217;s a fun, fast read.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>By: Alexander Barbara</title>
		<link>http://particletree.com/notebook/its-who-you-know/#comment-1086</link>
		<dc:creator>Alexander Barbara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Oct 2005 21:38:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;Thanks for the link!&lt;/p&gt;
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the link!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>By: Peter Mescalchin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Peter Mescalchin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Oct 2005 06:47:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;It's so very true. Doesn't matter if you're a XHTML Wizz and know AJAX like the back of your hand - it's the guys (and gals) that can network that get the business.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;I have found that taking a hit and doing websites that haven't paid much (if anything at all) but deliver me new channels of people/communities in which I can network and potentially pick up new work have worked really well for me.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Nice set of links - like above have said - will have to give em a read today :)&lt;/p&gt;
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s so very true. Doesn&#8217;t matter if you&#8217;re a XHTML Wizz and know AJAX like the back of your hand - it&#8217;s the guys (and gals) that can network that get the business.</p>

<p>I have found that taking a hit and doing websites that haven&#8217;t paid much (if anything at all) but deliver me new channels of people/communities in which I can network and potentially pick up new work have worked really well for me.</p>

<p>Nice set of links - like above have said - will have to give em a read today :)</p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>By: Alexander Kintis</title>
		<link>http://particletree.com/notebook/its-who-you-know/#comment-1084</link>
		<dc:creator>Alexander Kintis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Oct 2005 03:44:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;Good links.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;You're right, networking is a big part of the overall picture.  For some, even many, it is difficult wondering where to start.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Technically, it could be considered the same as trying to find a boyfriend/girlfriend.  The big thing everyone gets nervous about is the ice breaker.  You think to yourself, what can I say that's not dumb, wierd, etc.  One solution: Just be yourself and say a comment about something that's going on around the two of you.  Laugh about it, be angry, express yourself and again, just be yourself.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;The next step, in a relationship is trying to get the woman's/man's phone number.  This aspect of the similar scenario is the same as the one we are concerned about.  Bring something up that would require personal information exchange.  Example:  "[If he/she's talking about their services or products] Sounds interesting.  Do you have a web site which I can check out? [gives address] Cool, thanks.  Is your e-mail address on here [the website] too?" That's it.  That is just one run through of a possible scenario.  Other things could be either personal cell phone numbers, etc.  If you don't exchange information, or get the other person's information, don't worry about it. Just like there are plenty of other women/men in the sea, there are plenty of other possibilities [in the sea].&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Same concept, different ball game.  Be yourself and don't be afraid.  The worst that can happen is that you don't get his/her information.  And if you didn't, who cares?  You never had it in the first place.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;You miss 100% of the shots you don't take, and the biggest risk if not taking one.  What do you have to lose?&lt;/p&gt;
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good links.</p>

<p>You&#8217;re right, networking is a big part of the overall picture.  For some, even many, it is difficult wondering where to start.</p>

<p>Technically, it could be considered the same as trying to find a boyfriend/girlfriend.  The big thing everyone gets nervous about is the ice breaker.  You think to yourself, what can I say that&#8217;s not dumb, wierd, etc.  One solution: Just be yourself and say a comment about something that&#8217;s going on around the two of you.  Laugh about it, be angry, express yourself and again, just be yourself.</p>

<p>The next step, in a relationship is trying to get the woman&#8217;s/man&#8217;s phone number.  This aspect of the similar scenario is the same as the one we are concerned about.  Bring something up that would require personal information exchange.  Example:  &#8220;[If he/she&#8217;s talking about their services or products] Sounds interesting.  Do you have a web site which I can check out? [gives address] Cool, thanks.  Is your e-mail address on here [the website] too?&#8221; That&#8217;s it.  That is just one run through of a possible scenario.  Other things could be either personal cell phone numbers, etc.  If you don&#8217;t exchange information, or get the other person&#8217;s information, don&#8217;t worry about it. Just like there are plenty of other women/men in the sea, there are plenty of other possibilities [in the sea].</p>

<p>Same concept, different ball game.  Be yourself and don&#8217;t be afraid.  The worst that can happen is that you don&#8217;t get his/her information.  And if you didn&#8217;t, who cares?  You never had it in the first place.</p>

<p>You miss 100% of the shots you don&#8217;t take, and the biggest risk if not taking one.  What do you have to lose?</p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>By: Elliot Swan</title>
		<link>http://particletree.com/notebook/its-who-you-know/#comment-1083</link>
		<dc:creator>Elliot Swan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Oct 2005 18:36:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;Thanks for the good resources there, I'll have to spend some time and look through those.&lt;/p&gt;
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the good resources there, I&#8217;ll have to spend some time and look through those.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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